Love and Family Relationships

Role of Parental Relationships

We have already seen that the unconscious list creates the criterion list as a result of past experiences. So an easy way to a person's heart would be by knowing the criteria list. The first step to know the person's parental relationships and how well it worked out. This will help you relate how a girl will like a guy with traits like her lovable dad and a boy will like a girl with traits like his admirable mother.

How to become like the parent? Talk, walk, characteristics can help to trigger the subconscious mind. A little research can contribute to get the information and make use of it effectively.

Begin by understanding the most prominently loved factor. The talks of the target regarding the parent's plus point can be the best way to learn this. The person tends to talk more about the impressive figure in his/her life, and this can be any family member.

Family relationships

To get the attention of the spoiled only child, you will have to pamper the person fully to make them feel loved. While even the slightest show of affection can gain you high scores with an individual who was neglected in the family as they are always in the search for true love. Such people can be easily be made to fall in love with the attract and pull back method as they are too much into finding care and love. The same holds for the eldest of the house. Know about the person's individual relations and work according to it.

Creating the Addiction

Addiction

Getting a person addicted to you is the best way to create the love. The simple logic is if you are not able to do something which you are naturally used to on a daily basis, you will have withdrawal symptoms. The same applies to people. If you can create an addiction in the mind of the target, the person will never be able to let you go.

A compliment is taken to heart and enjoyed if the person has a high score. This is the reason why attention should be tried only after making a good score; else every other compliment will be ignored lightly. Knowing the needs of the person and catering to it will help create the addiction.

Bad times make a person create quick addictions. They need support, and when they get it, they unknowingly get addicted to the affection. Women look for love soon after childbirth.

Changing the addiction to obsession is the next step. This works like a drug addict withdrawing from the drug and he realized his obsession. Once you have created the addiction, stay away for short intervals for the person to realize the addiction that he/she feels towards you. You can enjoy the feeling when the person now tries to capture your attention. This break does not mean that you have to travel far. Just make yourself seem busy and reduce the support. Stay a little cold and as mentioned before creating some mystery around you.

The person after the induced addiction will try solving the answers that the subconscious mind creates. The more the person implores over your detachment, the more the person will get obsessed with you.

Important Note: Never take the detachment mode without attaining the obsession of the target.

The mind in its confusion will make the subconscious mind fall in love while answering these confusions. The trick to knowing the success of this step is when the person keeps calling and asking for attention.

The surprising factor is that this technique can work wonders even when the person does not like anything about you evidently. With this, you can actually go above the criteria list. But this is not a perfect solution, so it's always better to increase the score before trying induced addiction.

Induced Excitement

People sometimes love or hate situations not directly but by linking them with the related emotions and feelings. The unconscious mind tries to relate an exciting situation to a person when the person was present in the situation. This can be a bad or good excitement. Like for example, when there is a difficulty or a stressful situation, the supportive person gets close to the heart.

There is a weird example when hostages get a certain liking for the kidnapper when they get confused with the feelings.

You can work this in your favor by creating such exciting situations like joy rides and movies. This can make the person link the excitement with your presence. Increase the number of such cases in proper intervals which will make the person feel how exciting the situation was and will remember you in it. Which will make them feel that this might be love? Make sure you try to understand what an 'exciting experience' might be for the person you are trying to impress based on the past experiences.

• Needs for an induced excitement to work.
• Be at least a good friend.
• Keep the highest ranked criterion even if the others in the list can be forsaken.