Working on the Psychology Level

Falling in Love and Representation Systems

NLP ( Neuro Linguistic Programming) Representation system is the best way to classify the different personality types.

1. Visual: The person values looks the most. The top criterion of such a person will be “look good”. But the definition of the look good factor may differ. They do consider other factors, but this remains the top priority. To be on the safer side, be careful about your presentation when you meet such targets. If you are not looking good, then, subconscious mind programming might be helpful. A visual person will seek for more eye contact.

2. Auditory: Such people are the kind who like the silence or the sound of a car and buy the vehicle based on this top criteria. The voice tone will be a top deciding factor for attraction for such people. Be confident and clear with such people.

3. Kinesthetic: These are the emotional kind. They are impressed by internal divulgences. A hug creates wonders for people of the kind.

It is necessary to know the representational system of the person whom you love so that you can work accordingly. Visual people are easy to attract while kinesthetic people need time to know you better.

Subconscious Mind Programming

As the name implies, the method is to work upon the subconscious mind of the target. This works more or less like the idea behind companies always advertising their product even if all people know about them.

1. Repeated actions can affect the subconscious mind like being available at all times in the beginning of building a relationship.

2. Induce new beliefs by removing old beliefs.

3. Cross the conscious mind barrier to reach the subconscious mind.

Repeated presentations can make a person believe in it even though it may not be true in the absence of an opposing belief. The method is to induce the question of 'why not' in the mind of the person. The programming cannot be done all of a sudden; it has to be gradually implied upon. It takes patience to make changes to belief's set in the subconscious mind. You can make every small factor autosave into the subconscious mind and come back and start from where you left.

The steps to making the impact

• Non-belief
• Doubt if true
• Doubt the stored beliefs
• Believing it to be partially true
• Change in belief is attained.

How Subconscious programming implies itself in making a person fall in love?

You can train the mind to fall in love with you. But not in a direct way. It's a gradual process to make the person feel, “why not love him/her?”. This has been attributed to be the reason behind the failure of couples staying far apart as there is no activation of the subconscious mind taking place. Video plus voice chat can help to overcome issues in such situations.

For a repetitive action to reach the subconscious mind, it has to find its way over the conscious one. The best way to achieve this is through positive mentions from close friends. If you can convince the person's best friend to mention your positive traits and compliment you in the target's presence, it can make its way across the barrier. The important note to make sure that it doesn't seem intentional to the conscious mind. And remember to choose a trustworthy person.

You can even work the way into the auto recruit of the best friend of the target by being good to them, and they will do your part of recommendations without even them knowing the benefit that they are doing to you. You can involve more people for a better result.

Steps to be crossed

1. You are disliked

2. You are nice at times

3. You are interesting

4. The 'Why not' question

5. Fall in love

This subconscious programming can be achieved even without seeing in real with an attractive social media picture, some inspirational quotes, and loads of positive comments.

Love and Family Relationships

Role of Parental Relationships

We have already seen that the unconscious list creates the criterion list as a result of past experiences. So an easy way to a person's heart would be by knowing the criteria list. The first step to know the person's parental relationships and how well it worked out. This will help you relate how a girl will like a guy with traits like her lovable dad and a boy will like a girl with traits like his admirable mother.

How to become like the parent? Talk, walk, characteristics can help to trigger the subconscious mind. A little research can contribute to get the information and make use of it effectively.

Begin by understanding the most prominently loved factor. The talks of the target regarding the parent's plus point can be the best way to learn this. The person tends to talk more about the impressive figure in his/her life, and this can be any family member.

Family relationships

To get the attention of the spoiled only child, you will have to pamper the person fully to make them feel loved. While even the slightest show of affection can gain you high scores with an individual who was neglected in the family as they are always in the search for true love. Such people can be easily be made to fall in love with the attract and pull back method as they are too much into finding care and love. The same holds for the eldest of the house. Know about the person's individual relations and work according to it.

Creating the Addiction

Addiction

Getting a person addicted to you is the best way to create the love. The simple logic is if you are not able to do something which you are naturally used to on a daily basis, you will have withdrawal symptoms. The same applies to people. If you can create an addiction in the mind of the target, the person will never be able to let you go.

A compliment is taken to heart and enjoyed if the person has a high score. This is the reason why attention should be tried only after making a good score; else every other compliment will be ignored lightly. Knowing the needs of the person and catering to it will help create the addiction.

Bad times make a person create quick addictions. They need support, and when they get it, they unknowingly get addicted to the affection. Women look for love soon after childbirth.

Changing the addiction to obsession is the next step. This works like a drug addict withdrawing from the drug and he realized his obsession. Once you have created the addiction, stay away for short intervals for the person to realize the addiction that he/she feels towards you. You can enjoy the feeling when the person now tries to capture your attention. This break does not mean that you have to travel far. Just make yourself seem busy and reduce the support. Stay a little cold and as mentioned before creating some mystery around you.

The person after the induced addiction will try solving the answers that the subconscious mind creates. The more the person implores over your detachment, the more the person will get obsessed with you.

Important Note: Never take the detachment mode without attaining the obsession of the target.

The mind in its confusion will make the subconscious mind fall in love while answering these confusions. The trick to knowing the success of this step is when the person keeps calling and asking for attention.

The surprising factor is that this technique can work wonders even when the person does not like anything about you evidently. With this, you can actually go above the criteria list. But this is not a perfect solution, so it's always better to increase the score before trying induced addiction.