Role of Mental Impact

Match the Intelligence Level

As we had said about matching several physical aspects, it is necessary to the intellectual level too. People usually have an attraction towards those of the same or even higher intellectual level. But there is a  certain class of people who sense an insecure feeling with a potential partner of a higher intellectual level. So you have to keep it lowered with such people.

Making yourself seem more attractive

You might feel that it is not possible to make a person feel that you look good. But this can be effectively done with subconscious mind programming

As mentioned before, the first method is to get it done by a close friend. Secondly by words of praise from friends on social media. For married couples, keep your spouse engaged is something and mention things like how a college praised your looks. This can evoke some awakening of the subconscious mind. The best time for an open subconscious state is mostly before sleep, soon after waking up and when they are thinking about something else.

You can even make references to yourself but make it seem like unintended and spun into a story which will pass the conscious filter. Or you can just praise yourself as if there was no one around and the target hears it. One way to surpass the conscious filter is to be humorous.

Provide what they don't provide themselves

A simple example is a person who is too judgmental and remains too strict on oneself. Giving them some kindness can help you win their heart.

Ways to make this method work

• Complimenting a person who is not confident of his looks.
• Caring for the person's health if he/she doesn't give it the importance required.
• Admire the person who doesn't feel loved.

As we had mentioned towards the starting, knowing the unmet needs can do wonders to your relationship development.

Making your Position in the Target's Mind

Making your Position in the Target's Mind

When people think your name, a certain feeling would be coming to their mind. When your name is mentioned to your target, the greatest need of the person should be reflected.

How to Position Correctly

• Present your hobbies and interests so that it matches with the target's criteria list and this increase the score.
• Different colors have a different impact on the positioning. The color here refers to the color of the dress worn frequently.
• Maintaining a proper body language. There are several aspects of this which can be studied in detail.
• Correct the tone and voice according to the person and the target positioning requirement.
• You will have to check each and every aspect to position yourself optimally.

By positioning it does not mean the first image, but it is the image created over time which will bring a certain target image on the mention of your name.

Tips to proper positioning

Narcissist: They are the superior kind, and they are turned on by people who are more superior to them.

Sensitive target: They like strong people.

Shy person: Will like the person of opposite character, the confident kind. The simple reason for such a mention is because people try to solve their drawbacks with their partners.

Insecure: Likes confident people and likes to be complimented.

Pessimist: They like confident people but should be humble at the same time.

Lacking confidence over the image: Likes attractive people who are liked by others.

Introvert: Will love to watch the working of an extrovert.

Financial problems: Lower financial level people will like to live a better life with a person of better economic status.

Inferior: Remain humble to inferior people as superior people will be taken to be unreachable.

Women without a father: They will look for a strong and established male partner who looks after the family.

Criteria List

Dress to Appeal

Be appealing to the partner rather than to yourself. The method is to understand the likes of the target and dress accordingly. Learn the favorite color and dress yourself, so the target considers you similar.

Self-confidence

If you have issues understanding the proper position, the easy trick is to be confident. Self-confidence can create a positive impact on any person if it does not go into arrogance.

Females look for dependable males

Taking a generalized overview, women look onto men to provide protection and security. Being a strong character can create the desired effect in females.

Shopping for love

You can know a person from the shopping style. An individual who picks up a durable product spends thoughtfully and will be very rational while choosing a partner.

Matching the Criteria

Common points in the unconscious criteria include confident, kind and non-smoker. Try to match the maximum possible criteria with your target. Then make it work with induced addiction and excitement. These induced methods can help to move other conscious filters.

Examples:

• Make the person satisfied in your looks.
• A partner can accept the unorganized behavior.
• Not so important values can be sacrificed to impress the target.

Induced addiction and excitement can match the criteria and the rest.

Change in Criteria List

The reason why a married couple develops issues later on in life can be attributed to the changes taking place on the criteria list. And this change in the criteria list will cause issues in the married life. Changing needs can be a reason and even situations. This can even lead to extra-marital affairs where the partner who faces the problem of the unmatched criteria list finds attraction in another person who matches the list.

The change in criterion list happens only very rarely. Any unstable situation in the life can cause the change, and it should be looked upon promptly to prevent any issues later.

Different culture and Criteria

It is possible for a couple of widely different culture and unmatched criteria list to stay together. When you are of a different criterion list when compared to your partner, make them adapt to your indifference in a slow pace. Induced addiction can be practiced, and slowly the criterion difference can be fed to the subconscious mind.