Role of Mental Impact

Match the Intelligence Level

As we had said about matching several physical aspects, it is necessary to the intellectual level too. People usually have an attraction towards those of the same or even higher intellectual level. But there is a  certain class of people who sense an insecure feeling with a potential partner of a higher intellectual level. So you have to keep it lowered with such people.

Making yourself seem more attractive

You might feel that it is not possible to make a person feel that you look good. But this can be effectively done with subconscious mind programming

As mentioned before, the first method is to get it done by a close friend. Secondly by words of praise from friends on social media. For married couples, keep your spouse engaged is something and mention things like how a college praised your looks. This can evoke some awakening of the subconscious mind. The best time for an open subconscious state is mostly before sleep, soon after waking up and when they are thinking about something else.

You can even make references to yourself but make it seem like unintended and spun into a story which will pass the conscious filter. Or you can just praise yourself as if there was no one around and the target hears it. One way to surpass the conscious filter is to be humorous.

Provide what they don't provide themselves

A simple example is a person who is too judgmental and remains too strict on oneself. Giving them some kindness can help you win their heart.

Ways to make this method work

• Complimenting a person who is not confident of his looks.
• Caring for the person's health if he/she doesn't give it the importance required.
• Admire the person who doesn't feel loved.

As we had mentioned towards the starting, knowing the unmet needs can do wonders to your relationship development.