Further Advancement

Physical form and Love

Love in its initial stages before the two get to know each other will be largely dependent upon physical attraction. If the target dislikes overweight people, you can work to reduce your weight. The primary common physical form is to be healthy by following a healthy lifestyle. A frail person will not be seen as a potential partner.

Role of Cleanliness

Cleanliness does not mean to take bath daily, but it implies the way you present yourself. A person who does not tuck his shirt well seems shabby, stained dress and with a rough beard is always a turndown factor for females.

In a married life, the role of maintaining cleanliness is rather necessary and even the most minute details like bad nails can be simple reasons to break the attractiveness. Being untidy can eventually lead to repulsion.

Fluctuating scores

There is something like the first impression, but further impressions can also help to work like an upgrade or even downgrade of criterion scores. Good impressions can increase, and bad impressions can decrease scores. This also creates the hope of working on upgrade even if the target displayed disinterest initially.

Ways to get Upgrade

• Compliment them and their ideas.
• Promote them and support
• Let them find your positive traits without bragging about it.
• Provide help in times of need.

Analyze Music Preference

Different people listen to different kinds of music based on the emotional situation and phase of life. Music preference keeps changing and knowing this can help to know about the person more. Music preferences and related feelings can be denoted as below

Rock Music- Angry

Romantic songs – falling in love, missing a love

Techno beats -  energetic and feel good mood.

Borrow the music collection of the target and analyze what he/she likes to hear. Understand the lyrics, and you will be able to get proper information about what are the needs of the person.

Creating Secure Feeling

Making your partner feel secure in your presence is very necessary. If the partner fears you, then it might end up with mixed feeling. If the fear weights above the love, it will cause issues and lead to you getting avoided.

A poor guy will fear to make a move towards a rich girl. If the girl loves the guy, in this case, she will have to work towards removing the fear.

Beauty is another fear factor as men and women fear to make the move if they are not very beautiful. You will have to be humble and dress simply when you are trying to impress a person. You will have to be patient in removing the fear gradually. There are several kinds of concerns.

Guilt Factor

Guilt is mostly confused with love. If the person has a reduced score when compared to the partner, the increased guilt may force him/her to fall in love. Previous mistakes are believed to be cleared by correcting them later with other people. If the target can relate the new relation and connect the person to a previous wrongdoing, it is likely that the changes are affected. You can look like the person who made this impact on the life of your target, and by doing so, your target will link the similarity.

Being like the person towards whom your partner has the guilt factor running, can make you have an upper hand and create a strong relation so that they can make up for their previous mistake. This resemblance is not just by appearance, but can be induced even if the looks are not the same. The target will not know how the attraction was created, and the love relationship was formed. You can study well about any such guilt factor in the person and then try to convince them that you are facing the same problem so that the target easily relates the guilt towards to you.

Creating an Online Attraction

One of the most common tricks currently used to post an attractive profile picture online is to edit in Photoshop. Sometimes people who even know that you don't look so good, will be attracted to you.

Long distance relations face the problem of fading emotions. It is, therefore, essential to keep in contact through voice and video call to maintain the rapport. Maintain the phone calls and do not take a long break and it may cause issues. The video is an essential element for people with a visual representative system.

Steps to Do it:

• Begin ways of induced addition.
• Introduce the criterion difference mildly.
• Continue induced addiction.
• Press more on the characteristic.
• Induced addiction
• In the peak of dependency reveal your annoying character.

The trick is to introduce gradually that the target does not realize the change in the criterion. Let the person experience the change along with you telling the target interspersed with induced addiction.

Induced Criteria

You might be having some positive points which you want your target to add to his/her criteria list. You should not tell it directly as it won't reach the unconscious criteria checklist. Let it work its way into the person's mind. The best indirect way is to present in story form.

Power of story in introducing Criteria

• Stories can reach the subconscious mind
• It gives an indirect and humble feel rather than being a show-off.
• They interpret the story on their own, so this will register the trait.
• Creating trust by inducing findings.

In obvious introduction to positive traits will lead to the target making more conclusion and create more positive impact about you.

Role of Mental Impact

Match the Intelligence Level

As we had said about matching several physical aspects, it is necessary to the intellectual level too. People usually have an attraction towards those of the same or even higher intellectual level. But there is a  certain class of people who sense an insecure feeling with a potential partner of a higher intellectual level. So you have to keep it lowered with such people.

Making yourself seem more attractive

You might feel that it is not possible to make a person feel that you look good. But this can be effectively done with subconscious mind programming

As mentioned before, the first method is to get it done by a close friend. Secondly by words of praise from friends on social media. For married couples, keep your spouse engaged is something and mention things like how a college praised your looks. This can evoke some awakening of the subconscious mind. The best time for an open subconscious state is mostly before sleep, soon after waking up and when they are thinking about something else.

You can even make references to yourself but make it seem like unintended and spun into a story which will pass the conscious filter. Or you can just praise yourself as if there was no one around and the target hears it. One way to surpass the conscious filter is to be humorous.

Provide what they don't provide themselves

A simple example is a person who is too judgmental and remains too strict on oneself. Giving them some kindness can help you win their heart.

Ways to make this method work

• Complimenting a person who is not confident of his looks.
• Caring for the person's health if he/she doesn't give it the importance required.
• Admire the person who doesn't feel loved.

As we had mentioned towards the starting, knowing the unmet needs can do wonders to your relationship development.