BEING THAT

Be Mysterious

It's a common fact that people are more intrigued and anxious to know about individuals who are mysterious. Boring and open-book kind of people is easily forgotten. But it is not wise to show off as it creates a negative impact.

Consider a scenario where a person enters a group of people and says that he owns the yellow Ferrari parked outside. People will reconsider if he is saying the truth and many others will write him off as show off. At the same time, a person places a BMW key on the table where all can see; it raises mystery as they wonder if this person owns a BMW. This is not to prove the point by owning an expensive car, but to show how to remain mysterious.

Be Like an Open End Movie

Open end movies are rather intriguing. Once you see the movie you have a tendency to know more about it. Even your favorite TV series which end with a mysterious note will make you wait for the next episode. You can maintain a mysterious factor to yourself without expressing yourself as an open book. With a little mystery around you, the other person will have a tendency to know more about you. Never make the major mistake of expressing your love in a hurry.

Women never like predictable men like the nice guy. The good guy is always smiling, doing good things; there is nothing different about him, and he is the kind which is totally into others to work as they like it. They are considered boring.  Women usually like men who are strong, know their actions and make the right decisions for themselves and others around them.

Being mysterious will give you some space in the thoughts of the person. Once you have made that position, the next thing is to impress the person. In this article, you will learn how to impress the person by knowing more about them.

Send Mixed Signals

Sending mixed signals can induce thoughts about you in the mind of the person. This is not like direct signals to say that you love the person. Maintain the mysterious nature and show it off in not so evident signs which will make the person think if you love the person. After all, everyone likes to be loved.

But the role of mixed signals is relevant only after capturing attention. If you have a person sending random signals without causing any attraction before it, will be neglected and forgotten. Once you gain the attention, you have to maintain the attention by staying visible. Even a few days of staying away can provide an opportunity for another person to gain the attention from the person you love.

Next step to stay mysterious comes after you have made the person obsessed with you. You can stay away for a day or two, and when you meet, you can remain distant. The person will try to reach out. Give up and become friendly and then go out of the scene again. This will make the person wonder about several things like if you love the person, why you behaved so last day, why you left. Etc.

Maintain your mystery, but do not become too aloof that the person things you are distant and unreachable and do not become too open that your emotions are easily given away, and the person loses interest in you. Keep a good track and never disappear for long periods as it will break the attention. Maintain the track with proper signals in right intervals so that the person doesn't forget you. Make your target reach a stage of utter confusion over your intentions and increased obsession. You can then give one last signal and then reappear to express your love.

Do Not's and Understanding the needs of the person

Summary Till Now

1. Work to increase your score.

2. Your looks can be a great scoring factor unless your partners don't value much for looks.

3. If you are not physically attractive, become friends and then try to increase the score.

4. Be mysterious.

5. Stay on and off the scene after creating the attraction.

6. Be reachable

Some people fail to realize how attractive they are. The question lies in knowing how attractive you are to the person whom you love. You can know if the person considers you attractive by keeping a check on the body language. A definite signal implies that you have made your impression.

Being inhuman

Now, this might seem rather confusing. But you just have to tuck away all your human miseries and pains and present yourself as a mysterious character who is not the same as any other person. Your intriguing character will make others want to know more about you. Putting out such characters might seem a little difficult, but being cautious and knowing what to do and what not to will help you balance your actions evenly.

A few do not's

1. Complain about life and people.

2. Make the person feel you are in need.

3. Blame games

4. Reveal yourself completely.

5. Express your weakness over control of life.

Keep Away from Common Mistakes.

The trick of sending mixed signal is a little complicated. People make the mistake of sending it out very often and sending the next one too sooner following a positive signal and stay out of scene following a negative response. The actual way is just the vice versa. Stay on track till you gain the attention and take a break when the person is ought to miss your presence.

Know the needs of the Person

People have the predisposition to fall for a person who has what one need. This can be money, character, education, intelligence, etc. This will be the total score criteria of the person.The needs which are not gained by the person forms his top notes in the subconscious list.

Do a proper research of the person's past and this will make you acquainted with the needs. Show them indirectly that you can fulfill those needs. If you do not have the exact element, you can even express that you are on the way to gain that element. There is no waiting to express this. You can start off as soon as you know about the needs and make an indirect impression in every meeting.

Never fall into giving away your weakness in your conversations. Stick to your goal and preplan as to what you plan to speak towards attaining the goal in each meeting like your confidence, popularity, richness etc. Make only indirect expressions.

There can be some very specific unmet needs like protection, creativity, way of life and also features like kindness. Know what the person needs and try to impress on that note.

Summary about making a person falling in love

*Identify the elements of the total score calculation of the person.

*Show that you have a high score based on these elements.

*Create the attachment and raise the levels of attraction.

How far is this possible?

Why don't people fall for celebrities? Celebrities may fall into the perfect soulmate list, but people do not fall in love with celebrities. If we say that the heart is the sole deciding factor in falling in love, you might be wrong as the mind has a significant role to play in deciding whether to fall in love or not. If the mind diagnoses a person who fits the criteria list, as unattainable and unreachable, it may strike off the person from the list of soul mates. There are yet some people who fall for all in their soul mate list.

One example of unreachability is that a shy person who initially gets attracted to a famous and arrogant female. He will eventually drop the attraction as the mind deems the girl as unreachable. The psychological unreachability is what we are talking about.

Never show you are interested in the person before building the score as it will become a major turn off for some people. Begin by displaying that you are reachable. The person will then relate to the subconscious criteria, and if that list matches, the person unknowingly will become attracted to you.