Saturday 10 June 2017

BEING THAT

Be Mysterious
It's a common fact that people are more intrigued and anxious to know about individuals who are mysterious. Boring and open-book kind of people is easily forgotten. But it is not wise to show off as it creates a negative impact.
Consider a scenario where a person enters a group of people and says that he owns the yellow Ferrari parked outside. People will reconsider if he is saying the truth and many others will write him off as show off. At the same time, a person places a BMW key on the table where all can see; it raises mystery as they wonder if this person owns a BMW. This is not to prove the point by owning an expensive car, but to show how to remain mysterious.
Be Like an Open End Movie
Open end movies are rather intriguing. Once you see the movie you have a tendency to know more about it. Even your favorite TV series which end with a mysterious note will make you wait for the next episode. You can maintain a mysterious factor to yourself without expressing yourself as an open book. With a little mystery around you, the other person will have a tendency to know more about you. Never make the major mistake of expressing your love in a hurry.
Women never like predictable men like the nice guy. The good guy is always smiling, doing good things; there is nothing different about him, and he is the kind which is totally into others to work as they like it. They are considered boring.  Women usually like men who are strong, know their actions and make the right decisions for themselves and others around them.
Being mysterious will give you some space in the thoughts of the person. Once you have made that position, the next thing is to impress the person. In this article, you will learn how to impress the person by knowing more about them.
Send Mixed Signals
Sending mixed signals can induce thoughts about you in the mind of the person. This is not like direct signals to say that you love the person. Maintain the mysterious nature and show it off in not so evident signs which will make the person think if you love the person. After all, everyone likes to be loved.
But the role of mixed signals is relevant only after capturing attention. If you have a person sending random signals without causing any attraction before it, will be neglected and forgotten. Once you gain the attention, you have to maintain the attention by staying visible. Even a few days of staying away can provide an opportunity for another person to gain the attention from the person you love.
Next step to stay mysterious comes after you have made the person obsessed with you. You can stay away for a day or two, and when you meet, you can remain distant. The person will try to reach out. Give up and become friendly and then go out of the scene again. This will make the person wonder about several things like if you love the person, why you behaved so last day, why you left. Etc.

Maintain your mystery, but do not become too aloof that the person things you are distant and unreachable and do not become too open that your emotions are easily given away, and the person loses interest in you. Keep a good track and never disappear for long periods as it will break the attention. Maintain the track with proper signals in right intervals so that the person doesn't forget you. Make your target reach a stage of utter confusion over your intentions and increased obsession. You can then give one last signal and then reappear to express your love.

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