Saturday 10 June 2017

Do Not's and Understanding the needs of the person

Summary Till Now
1. Work to increase your score.
2. Your looks can be a great scoring factor unless your partners don't value much for looks.
3. If you are not physically attractive, become friends and then try to increase the score.
4. Be mysterious.
5. Stay on and off the scene after creating the attraction.
6. Be reachable
Some people fail to realize how attractive they are. The question lies in knowing how attractive you are to the person whom you love. You can know if the person considers you attractive by keeping a check on the body language. A definite signal implies that you have made your impression.
Being inhuman
Now, this might seem rather confusing. But you just have to tuck away all your human miseries and pains and present yourself as a mysterious character who is not the same as any other person. Your intriguing character will make others want to know more about you. Putting out such characters might seem a little difficult, but being cautious and knowing what to do and what not to will help you balance your actions evenly.
A few do not's
1. Complain about life and people.
2. Make the person feel you are in need.
3. Blame games
4. Reveal yourself completely.
5. Express your weakness over control of life.
Keep Away from Common Mistakes.
The trick of sending mixed signal is a little complicated. People make the mistake of sending it out very often and sending the next one too sooner following a positive signal and stay out of scene following a negative response. The actual way is just the vice versa. Stay on track till you gain the attention and take a break when the person is ought to miss your presence.
Know the needs of the Person
People have the predisposition to fall for a person who has what one need. This can be money, character, education, intelligence, etc. This will be the total score criteria of the person.The needs which are not gained by the person forms his top notes in the subconscious list.
Do a proper research of the person's past and this will make you acquainted with the needs. Show them indirectly that you can fulfill those needs. If you do not have the exact element, you can even express that you are on the way to gain that element. There is no waiting to express this. You can start off as soon as you know about the needs and make an indirect impression in every meeting.
Never fall into giving away your weakness in your conversations. Stick to your goal and preplan as to what you plan to speak towards attaining the goal in each meeting like your confidence, popularity, richness etc. Make only indirect expressions.

There can be some very specific unmet needs like protection, creativity, way of life and also features like kindness. Know what the person needs and try to impress on that note.

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