Matching with Your Lover

Connect with similarities

You cannot be similar to a person, and it is not necessary that you should love only a  person who is similar to you. Simple examples of similarities can be

• Similar morals
• Show similarity of beliefs like God, religion, etc. if the person has high regards to such matters.
• Establish a good rapport by seeming similar.
• Interest in same hobbies. This can work like a magic factor between couples who are facing problems in married life.
• Express similarity in social status.
• Never show the person that you have the same trait as he/she dislikes.

There are several other methods to express similarity but do not make the mistake of showing this directly. The direct expression will reveal to the person that you are trying to impress and the mysteriousness mentioned above will be lost which will hamper the relationship.

Till Now: Let's see where you are till now. First, you get close to the person after some research and get to know their needs and character. Works towards increasing score based on this information and create the attraction and obsession required. You then work the mysterious signals by appearing and disappearing.

How to Establish Rapport

A good rapport can be built with a person by some similarities where the person will feel comfortable in your presence. This is not directed at the conscious mind but has to create a spark in the unconscious mind. A wrong move towards the conscious mind can spoil the whole effort. An easy way can be to come down to their level and try to stay close to their gesture, outlook towards life, etc. Simple methods like coming down to take up a similar posture can also help towards building rapport. But take care not do make it seem like mimicking. You can get a positive signal if the person later changes posture to match yours.

Matching Voice

You can match your tempo, volume, pauses, etc. to sound similar to the person whom you are trying to build the rapport. This should be essentially done without letting the other person know of it. The speed of speech, style of pausing, usage of expression, style, etc. can be imitated. When done tactfully without letting the person be aware of it, it can touch the subconscious mind to create the rapport.

Matching Words

Using same words can also find your way to the person's subconscious mind to build the rapport. Repetitive words, phrases used, and object names used by the individual can be noted and used. Make sure you do not make the person offended.

Facts suggest that people have a liking towards names starting with the same alphabet. So you should be able to realize the impact that the same characteristic can create. The trick is to make the person feel at ease and in the comfort zone while in your presence whereby the mind can connect unknowingly.