Making it Work

The reason why you feel attracted to a person is that he/she would have passed the subconscious criteria list. Sometimes there would have been several people, but you fall in love with the person whom the mind specifies as reachable.

There are also situations where you had no definite connection to a person, but later you feel attracted. This is because the number of meetings will increase the mind's tendency to place in potentials.

Research have shed some light on the capacity of an eye-to-eye gaze to release some love hormones. This proves that the more the contact, higher the chances of causing attraction. Never show yourself as arrogant or unreachable as the person will not show the courage to feel attracted. This is highlighted because, when you are trying to make a person fall in love, you might be advised to stay hard and aloof. But the problem arises as you overdo and the person's mind interprets it as an unreachable person. Smiling can help to remove the unreachability barrier if the criteria list matches.

You might have come across many books that will tell you the magic of a smile. But they do not tell you that the smile will work its wonders only if you have a score more than the target person. You have to be recognized by the mind and heart of the person as a potential partner and also the attraction should be present. These two work together. A smile and gaze in the eyes can make you reachable, but to attract the person, the major role is played by the score. The next sections will tell you how to make a good total score.